Here’s How To Find Out Exactly What’s Going On In His Head So You Can Re-Ignite His Love And Create An Intimate Connection That Lasts A Lifetime… Even If He’s Already Thinking Of Leaving
Ask any woman what makes a relationship successful, and almost all of them will mention one common thing: COMMUNICATION.
That’s because when you and your man are able to share open, honest communication with each other you create a rock-solid foundation that is nearly impossible to break.
Rough spots aren’t the cause of distance in a relationship. It’s how you handle them that matters. In fact, with good communication, a “rough spot” can actually bring you closer together, further building trust and connection.
Unfortunately, creating open, honest communication isn’t easy. In fact, the man is often unhelpful and seemingly unable to create that kind of dynamic.
Most women run into one of the following two challenges when trying to communicate with their man:
1. He Doesn’t Listen
If you’re not communicating with him in a way that is WORKING… it doesn’t matter how much more often you try to communicate.
Do you ever feel like what you say to your man goes in one ear and out the other?
Maybe you’ve asked him nicely to take out the trash every Tuesday for the past 10 weeks… yet every Wednesday morning you wake up to find it hasn’t happened…
Of course, the trash isn’t a big deal. What IS a big deal is that he just isn’t listening and doesn’t seem to care.
And then the same thing happens when you try to share something meaningful… like where your relationship is going or something that’s upsetting you… only to find he seems to care more about who won the ballgame or what’s for dinner!
This can be INSANELY frustrating… and the worst thing is he doesn’t even seem to care that it makes you feel this way.
2. He Doesn’t Talk
Have you ever known your man was upset about something and asked him what was wrong… and he simply replied with, “Nothing” and walked away?
You KNEW something was going on… but instead of wanting to talk about it and share his feelings… he simply shut down… and left you to try and “guess” what was bothering him and how to fix it. It’s hard enough to fix the actual problem… but now you’ve also got a passive aggressive problem to deal with on TOP of the actual problem!
Unfortunately, the things most women do to try to “fix” these frustrating situations gets them nowhere.
They may try to share LESS of their feelings because they don’t see the point in trying.
I think you know that this isn’t the answer.
Other women try to overcompensate and communicate MORE.
But if you’re not communicating with him in a way that is WORKING… it doesn’t matter how much more often you try to communicate. If you’re driving and you run into a brick wall, should you keep running into it? After months or even years of getting nowhere, most women give up and move on.
It’s sad. And it sucks. But here’s the good news:
IT DOESN’T HAVE TO BE THIS WAY.
Really.
You can get your man to listen to you. You can get him to share his thoughts and feelingswith you. And you can get him to take an active interest in making the magical thing you share last and last and last…
You just need the right TOOLS and techniques to help you do it.
NEWSFLASH: Your Man WANTS To Communicate With You… But He Needs YOUR Help
Just because it may seem like your man doesn’t want to communicate on an emotional level… does that really mean he doesn’t want too?
In fact, 9 out of 10 men in a relationship WANT to communicate just as much… if not MORE… than the woman he is with.
It’s just that nearly every man is taught from a very early age that it is not ok for him to open up to another person. It’s just not the “manly” thing to do.
These beliefs are POUNDED into his head day in and day out.
As a result of this upbringing, we men are very cautious when it comes to meaningful communication and the whole idea of “feelings” in general.
It’s not healthy… but it’s all we know.
So we get a scared and nervous when a woman wants to talk “feelings”. It’s not only something we’ve never done … it’s also something that we are taught will make us appear WEAK, INSECURE, and less of a man.
This creates a huge dilemma for us…
We want to open up to you… but at the same time, we just don’t feel comfortable doing so. So we take the “easy” way out and just avoid it all together.
Fortunately, this “bad programming” of ours can actually be GOOD NEWS for you…
How The Way You Communicate With Him Determines Whether Or Not You Are “The One” For Him…
Most men have so many barriers to open communication that there is a very good chance that your man has never opened up to a woman before.
If you can be the one woman who can connect with him on an intimate level, it can be a VERY powerful.
He will see you as his soulmate: the one woman on earth who has helped him release all of those feelings and frustrations he’s bottled up inside over all of those years… and the one woman he can TRULY connect with.
And fortunately. making a man feel comfortable and open to sharing his feelings with you can actually be EASY when you know the right way to overcome the barriers to communication that are built up in his mind.
How Good Relationships Go Bad… And What To Do About It…
In addition to how men are conditioned, there are all kinds of other things that make him resistant to communication: stress in other areas of his life, insecurities, or baggage from past relationships.
In order to effectively communicate with him, it’s important that you learn what his unique barriers to open communication are, and how to help him overcome them in a way that makes him excited about doing it.
When you do this correctly, your man will LISTEN to what you have to say, and open up to you every single day.
How To Create The Kind Of Open, Understanding Relationship Most Couples Never Get To Experience… Quickly And Easily…
My Communication Secrets for a Secure Relationship program was designed to teach you how to communicate so your man listens, takes interest in what you have to say, and opens up and shares his most intimate thoughts and feelings.
You’ll learn a complete system for identifying exactly what a man means when he says something… and what it means when he doesn’t say anything at all.
You’ll discover clear ways to communicate and share your thoughts and emotions in a way that a man will listen, respect your feelings, and respond in a positive way.
You’ll also learn about ways of communicating that go BEYOND WORDS, so you can understand what’s going on “beneath the surface” and literally see inside a man’s mind to figure out what he’s REALLY thinking and feeling.
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